1. TO SINK INTO SELF-PITYIf you keep asking why me, you'll never get to the ground of it. Self pity makes a huge deal about some bad luck. Instead of an ease it puts everything in negativity. And apart of that it annoys all the people around you. 2. ALWAYS LISTEN TO OTHERUsually no one knows us as good as ourselves. So does it make sense to make decisions about outfits, drinks or whatever based on what other people tell us to. Rather ask: What do I like? What make ME happy? What is good forMe? Even when the answer might be something else, than the rest of the world would have given you. 3. TO LIVE IN THE PAST Memories are nice and a little bit of nostalgia isn't bad with a glass of red wine in the evening. But who lives in the past puts more weight in the past than the present, and misses instant. And doesn't realize how beautiful it is right now, and might be something we would like to look back to later. 4. TO SEE THE FUTURE AS A RESCUERRight now everything stinks - but oh well, someday everything is going to get better or not? Dreams about the future are nice and motivating or even exciting. But if we always hope for even better and bigger, we miss - once again - the present. The only time, we can actually bring in shape. 5. TO COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS There are thousands of reason to envy other people about what they might have. Maybe the pretty body of your best friend even though she is eating all the time. Or even the pretty awesome career of the person you met last weekend. But the good thing is: It has abosultely nothing to do with yourself. Rather focus on your strengths and what you love to do. 6. TO ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF BACK IN THE LINE Between the girlfriend, the shoulder-to-cry-on, the daughter, party crasher, athlete and being a work ace the most important things gets forgotten: YOURSELF. If you're regularly alone, listen to your inner you and do exactely what feels right, is collecting energy and balanced and therefore ready again to achive all the duties. 7. TO ALWAYS DEPEND ON OTHERS You have a boyfriend? Great. And in addition a best friend? Even better. But your luck or bad luck isn't depending on either one of them or anything else. It is is important that we learn to spend time by ourselves but still have blast and also to be strong and independent.
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